Relationship coaching for emotional intimacy and clear communication.
The Love Smarts method combines insight and action to create lasting change where it counts!
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Relationship coaching for actual humans
You’ve tried the communication scripts, the relationship podcasts, and that one self-help book your friend swore by. But in the heat of the moment, all those 'perfect phrases' seem to disappear—and you're left replaying the same arguments, wondering why nothing is changing.
I’ve been there too. Early in my work, I could look at any conflict and help couples rephrase their frustrations and requests beautifully. It was right there on Page 129 of the Relationship Recommendation Rulebook. But when it came to helping them respond in real time? Somehow my extensive training didn't cover that skill. And TBH my own relationship wasn’t exactly a model for perfect communication either. (Unless you count Shower Me. Shower Me always knows what to say.)
Gradually I got it: the tools are only helpful if we can figure out our blocks to using them. And real relationships aren’t about saying the 'right things' with monk-like self-control. They’re about building instincts. By creating practice drills, habit-based cues, and relationship 'skills labs,' I started to see couples move past the need for scripts altogether because they were rewiring how they showed up for each other.
So if you’re tired of the same fights on repeat or feel like you’re speaking different languages, you’re in the right place. Let’s trade perfection for progress and turn those "Ugh, not again" moments into, "Whoa, we actually handled that!"