Love Smarts

Relationship help for divergent minds of all kinds

The feeling that he finally gets you … The big decision that feels risky but SO worth it … The permission to show the world your true self … are ALL on the other side of brave conversations. Love Smarts gives you the language and the courage for the hottest connection and the boldest life ever!

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Don’t Lose Yourself for Love

Unmask your YOUest you, within (or without) your relationship.

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Wherever you are in the Love Cycle

Love Smarts is for you if you’re a …

Creative, neurodivergent, entrepreneurial, or former “pleasure-to-have-in-class” individual who feels like relationships are the one thing you can’t hack

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Neurodivergent couple who wants a relationship that celebrates your brains … instead of just adding water wings of “patience” and “compromise” to standard communication advice

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Relationship Expert who feels stuck because your PhD-level insight about attachment theory isn’t moving the needle when your couples are fighting … again

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Here’s how we transform your love life.

What, Like It’s Hard?

Step 01.

Learn the tools

I’ll teach you how to have proactive conversations to get on the same page about topics you didn’t even think to verbalize (“Wait, why would we leave for the airport a full hour early? There’s never any traffic ...”) I’ll show you how to scan yourself when you’re defensive, and what to do to move the convo forward. I’ll help you understand your patterns and the challenges you might face in doing things differently.

Step 02.

Break the rules

Once you know the basics of building trust, sharing how you feel, and collaborating like teammates, we can go deeper by freaking the formula. When you understand where the recommendations come from, we can usually meet the same goals with a MacGuyvered (and more authentically YOU) method.

Step 03.

Rinse and relate

There’s something fascinating that happens when you feel deeply seen and truly sturdy with your partner. The consistency you were vigilent about? The reassurance you craved? The version of you that you needed them to understand? Feels safe to evolve. Secure relationships make room for your growth, and our sessions will help you rewrite the rules for every new emotional era.

Glowing Reviews

  • “Loved it!! Lizzy was so warm, friendly and helpful! I am floating around.”

  • “Always feel seen in these sessions, very relatable topics and wonderful release of emotions through tapping.”

  • “This was extremely valuable and I have never done this practice prior to today. Thank you very much for donating your time to helping us get better at what we do.”

  • “Helpful in teaching me a skill to use to manage my own emotional health between sessions as well as an intervention to share with clients.”

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Hi, I’m Lizzy

And I know love smarts

I spent ten years in the dating world decoding cryptic text messages, sabotaging real connections, and telling therapists that I was the victim. (How dare he!) Then I met my husband.

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How to Gossip Good
How to Gossip Good

You learned never to air your dirty laundry, but you also know it’s not healthy to isolate. Lucky for you, there’s a sweet spot!

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Giving a Hoot
Giving a Hoot

You’ve got an impressive Duolingo streak … here’s what a bullying persistant owl can teach you about communication with your partner

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Depth Perception
Depth Perception

You’ve got your emotional SCUBA gear on … but your partner is splashing around in the wading pool

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Five days of fun, actionable emails to go from tense and distant ... to clear, excited, and connected

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If you’re ready to stop walking on eggshells and be your weirdest, wildest self in all stages of the love cycle, I’d love to help you live and let thrive.

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